Because Tomorrow Comes – Chapter 3

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Title: Because Tomorrow Comes – Chapter 3
Author: Marakeshsparrow
Rating: Mature (not all chapters, but overall)
Pairing: YunJae
Genre: Drama, Romance, Angst
Warning: This is a work of fiction. I own nothing and do not claim to have any knowledge to real life events. This is how reality played out in my brain, but again it is FICTION.
Summary: Kim Jaejoong and Jung Yunho struggle to move on from the past. After the break-up of the super group TVXQ, they are haunted by memories, regrets, and loss. But there is no escaping the future and no way to return to the days of old. Will they be able to come to terms with their present and learn how to move forward without each other?

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Maintaining Mental Health in the Face of Stress and Adversity

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I want to take a minute (or five) to talk about mental health.

If you’ve followed my revealing stories here or on the Kirschenbaum Productions blog, you know that I’ve had my ups and downs with depression and anxiety. After finally finding a therapist who took a more spiritual, “mind-body connection” approach, I was finally able to pull myself up out of the mire and find my way back to the optimistic, easy going person I naturally am.

But like many things in life, there are no “happy endings”. What does it take to maintain mental health in the face of obstacles, tragedies and overwhelming stress?

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Secret Message DramaFever Drama Club

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What an interesting little web drama this was! Short episodes that go back and forth between Japan and Korea. A bit of lost in translation and a bit of You Got Mail. This was enjoyable from beginning to end. And let’s not forget the amazing quirkiness from TOP.

Check out the postings below!

Secret Message Episodes 1-3: Is It Love?

Secret Message Episodes 4-7: Ghosts of Lovers Past

Secret Message Episodes 8-10: Love Face to Face

Twenty Again DramaFever Drama Club

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My group recaps of the inspiring and adorable Twenty Again. Again, another great departure from TvN. They’ve been coming out with a lot of great stuff recently. Here’s hoping the newest, Cheese in the Trap follows in the footsteps of these other mold-breaking K-dramas!

Check out the last post HERE. Previous weeks can be found at the bottom.

Thoughts on Marriage

“Mawage. Mawage is wot bwings us togeder tooday.” – The Princess Bride

I’ve never thought much about marriage. Though we’re taught as little girls to look forward to our weddings, to dream of white dresses and towering cakes—it just never did much for me.

A big part of it was that I didn’t have a very good example of what a marriage should/could be. My parents were ill suited for each other; there wasn’t much love (that I could see) and there was a lot of fighting. But deeper than that, there was an air of unhappiness, a malaise that hung just below the surface. I could tell they weren’t satisfied by their partnership—though I was young, I was perceptive.

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Learning To Be Proud

 “What have you done today to make you feel proud?”  — Heather Small

When I think about all the amazing people I’ve known in my life who identify as LGBTQ (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer) I am awed and feel slightly ashamed. So many of these people—deemed as “other” by a large portion of mainstream society—are so open with who they are, so secure, so … proud. There really isn’t a better word to describe it.

And yet I ask myself—have I ever been proud of who I am, really? It seems like most of my life I’ve found things to be ashamed of; shortcomings, flaws, imperfections. Why has it always been so hard to embrace who I am?

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